resolve

'Tis the time of year that lots of people resolve to do things differently, better, more, or less.  I've fallen victim to my own resolve (or lack thereof) in the past, and am always tempted to say, "Never again will I make resolutions that set me up for failure!"

Still, there's a certain contagious optimism to resolutions.  And generally, even a day, week, month, or short season of change is usually worth the effort it took to get there.  In a spirit of looking to the good and hoping for even better, I'm sharing a few of my resolutions for our new year.  When we're at our best, these are already true, so I suppose I just hope to see more of our best in the coming months.    Happy New Year!

In 2011, I resolve to...
... Remember that my hope is that our children will have a happy childhood, even if it came at the expense of a tidy, easy, or quiet season in my life.

... Remember that my husband came home from work today, even if it's later than I'd like.  Even more, it's work that suits him well, and brings many blessings in our life and the lives of others.

... Remember that there are lots of ways that others will influence our life, and sometimes it doesn't seem right or best at the time.  I'll trust that God truly does work things together for our good.

... Remember that the little ledge in my kitchen is for people to lean against while sharing about life, and that they can't do that if I allow clutter to pile on it.

... Remember that they probably are acting their age (this goes for children, friends, and extended family).

... Remember that my health is important, and make choices accordingly.

... Remember that I rarely regret the things I do not say.

... Remember that road trips are fun, and I shouldn't be afraid to go new places with my family.

... Remember that my guests need a clean cup, something in it, and a listening ear when they come to my home, and these are within my ability to provide.  Other things are nice, if they can happen without undoing the first three.

... Remember that there are board games we can play without causing strife.  Seriously, "non-competitive" is not always a bad term.