Wednesday, November 7, 2007

it's a conspiracy, part II

Thanks for your ongoing conversation and thoughts on Advent. This is Wednesday, which means I'll share what "Works for Me." Shannon asked us writers to do things a little backwards this week... instead of sharing a tip, we're asking a question. So, here's mine...

How do you prepare for Christmas?

Specifically, how does your preparation support your values for the holiday? Do you have any special tradition that helps you or the kids focus? Do you start on a certain day, or follow any special timeline? Do you eliminate or add anything during this season?

I'm eager to hear. And, without breaking the rules, I want to share a link to an idea that has our community thinking about this question: www.adventconspiracy.org.

4 comments:

SAHMmy Says said...

I posted on holiday traditions as well. My oldest child is 3, and I'm looking for ideas to celebrate the magic of the season--both the American commercial aspect and the religious traditions. This year we're focusing on having a thankful heart. I plan to do as many activities as I can think of with my son to teach him the joy of giving--both material possessions and time. I agree that Christmas materialism and secularization has gotten out of control, but in my opinion Santa, stockings, trees, and decorations add to our American collective conscious--a shared experience that bonds us together.

MamaToo said...

SAHMmy - you seem to be finding a balance that honors your values and culture. It seems intentional without getting overly legalistic - thank you for sharing!

Anonymous said...

We always go to the Grotto to see the light displays and remember the real meaning of Christmas. We are also going to try to have a little holiday party and ornament exchange, both to welcome people into our new home, and to celebrate friendship. On Christmas Eve, I always read the kids three things: A Visit From St. Nicholas (twas the night before Christmas), the story of the nativity from the book of Luke, and a Max Lucado story called, "You Are Special." Even though my kids are teens, they still want me to read to them on Christmas Eve.

MamaToo said...

Mallory, I love your ideas. Reading together is one of my favorite family memories, too. Written word is so powerful when read aloud, and yet it is very personal to hear a story and let your imagination take you there!

The Grotto is something I'm looking forward to. We didn't end up going last year because of the crowds, but are hoping to time it better this year.