Obi-1 was struggling to settle down for a little afternoon nap today. I sang a few songs and we did some deep breathing, but I could tell his mind was still racing. So, I taught him how to "Make Quiet." In case you're unfamiliar, Making Quiet is different than Being Quiet. Being quiet is just trying not to make any noise - what I like to call an "anti-" activity: anti-noise, anti-interruption, anti-fidgety. It's very hard for little boys, and actually very hard for most of us, whose beings aren't very quiet.
Making Quiet, on the other hand, is a great skill & quiet easy to learn! In a nutshell, here's how you Make Quiet: close your eyes. Breath in through your nose and out through your mouth, as deeply and slowly and quietly as you can. And then... Listen. Listen to every sound, and try to figure out what you're hearing. The more (and longer) you Make Quiet, the more you'll hear. This list is thirteen things we heard when we were Making Quiet...
- The garbage truck outside in front of our house
- Glass being dumped into the recycling section of the garbage truck
- The neighbors' dog whining
- A neighbor mowing the yard two houses away
- A squirrel running across our roof
- An airplane flying high overhead
- The hum of my computer
- Obi-2 snoring
- Cars on the street a block behind us, slowing down for the nearby Italian cafe and shops
- My tummy rumbling (note to self: must eat lunch!)
- The mail dropping into our mail slot by the front door
- The washing machine spinning out the freshly laundered sheets
- A neighbor child riding his bicycle on the sidewalk & laughing out loud
By the end of our time together Making Quiet, I felt more rested, and Obi-1 was asleep. It was a good way to spend a bit of a lazy afternoon.
p.s. lots of people write interesting Thursday Thirteen lists. You can find them here...
10 comments:
We used to do something like this. We took walks after dinner every evening, and sometimes, one of us would say, "This will be a listening walk!" We'd walk in total silence, and then after a while, on the way home, we'd share what we'd heard.
I've never "made quiet" before, but I'll give it a go sometime! Happy TT!
What a wonderful practice for kids and adults.
Mama Kelly
I've done this before, so thanks for the reminder to try it with the kids. I especially love to sit outside and make quiet and listen to the trees talk...
Happy TT!
I love quiet time. I get up before everyone each morning and it's great just to sit out on the front porch, close my eyes and identify all that I hear. Great list.
And where were you at naptime about 15 years ago when I could have used this technique?? Harumph.
:-)
I try but my son is at the age of the constant question asking: "why? what? how come? why? huh?" etc.
Great idea! I enjoyed the list!
Making quiet sounds alot like meditating :-)
I really, really like this! My kids are far too old for naps (although, believe me, I sometimes wish they'd take one) but this sounds like a great relaxation skill for everyone! I'm going to give it a go!!!
I always forget to eat lunch, too :)
Happy TT! Really enjoyed this!
Jessica The Rock Chick
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